Happiest people
Do you know who the happiest people are?
- Those who have the courage to be themselves, just the way God made them (not just the way you are), rather thantry to be something they’re not in order to fit in or impress others. Struggling to live up to what you think others expect of you puts a heavy weight on you…
but, there’s a freedom in Humility.
Be happy :)
The Cure for Complaining and Criticism
(a story from a book by Lovasik)
A priest kept on his desk a special notebook labelled “Complaints of member against other members.” When someone called to tell him the fault of another, he would say,
“here’s my complaint book. Ill write down what you say, and you can sign it. Then when I have to take the matter up officially, I shall know what I may testify to”
The sight of the open book and ready pen had its effect.
“oh,no, I couldn’t sign anything like that,”
And no entry was made.
The priest says he kept the book for 40years, opened it probably a thousand times, and never wrote a line on it.
Heart
Thrown a grenade at a “man”, seconds to explode..
The man reassemble it.. it did not explode
what happen next?
Nothing.. No backfire
The man just return the the grenade to the person that could get him killed.
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There’s this guy who always been given an alms everytime the “man” meets him.
One day, the guy meets the man ,
but to his shock he didn’t receive any alms
because the man lost in a campaign for financial fight
So to his disappointment ..
He willed to kill/injured the man with his knife.
The man of course make a defensive stunt..
and again he gave it back..the knife to his assasin
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That’s a true story!
(Imagine, 2 events that may get him killed or badly injured..a grenade, a knife. Falter! w/ his perfectly genuinely good heart. Imagine, he didnt do anything, back he return, no hurting.. 2 person a nowhere man and a beggar)
Two of many stories ive heard to the very good hearted man last Oct.7.. His 94th birthday….
That man is my LoLo,
Forever will be my inspiration.
"DO or Do NOT„
there is no try."
Dirk Humility Interview
Nowitzki: […] Of course it fills me with pride to hear that fans in Germany got up at 2 a.m. to watch our games and that they celebrated the championship in my hometown of Würzburg as if Germany had just won the football World Cup. SPIEGEL: But? Nowitzki: But soon I will have lived in America for 13 years. At the beginning I was condescended to and laughed at. “The nice boy from Germany will never make it,” people said. Still, I never gave up. Now, I have been celebrated by 250,000 people in Dallas at the championship parade. That was an unbelievably intense feeling. I trembled. SPIEGEL: You are now a German-American idol . Nowitzki: To be honest, I slowly have the feeling that I’m not cut out for such moments. SPIEGEL: What do you mean? Nowitzki: Well, at the very least I don’t behave terribly competently. I feel ashamed when the entire focus is on me. I think people can see that. In public appearances, I am stiff as a board. […] SPIEGEL: You have long been reserved when it comes to sponsoring gigs. Is that going to change in the future? Nowitzki: There certainly isn’t a shortage of offers. You wouldn’t believe how many watch manufacturers have sent me their models. Just like that. I give them all away. I am satisfied with what I have. How crazy do you have to be when you can afford everything but still clutter up your life with all sorts of advertising appointments? No thanks. SPIEGEL: Did any German politicians call to congratulate you? Nowitzki: I think that (German Chancellor) Angela Merkel called my adviser. I’m not totally sure. But do you know what made me the happiest? SPIEGEL: What? Nowitzki: Muhammad Ali sent me a package. SPIEGEL: What was in it? Nowitzki: A boxing glove with the inscription: “You are the greatest.” Please don’t ask me immediately about the political meaning of the gift. I was simply happy and sent Ali a golden basketball with a similar inscription. What a guy.
"Do u wonder why we aways have to follow what other people have.
Why not we be ourselves??"
- our path created by God
Damn! LIVE !? Awesome !!
We have Our Roots
Ever since we were born we are not alone..
We began with a family, the first community from which our personhood is largely shaped and formed. In this community, we learn about our emotions,our ways of coping with life,our view of the world..even how we show show affection to other has its roots in the Family.
And as my Lolo’s B-day comes closer..in each passing days..
Our roots, I came to remember how gently Great He is/were for me,for us.
Imagining all the situations and believing for it for so long,for forever. Great families, we dont just love and respect them.
We in a good sense “all adjective” them and “all verb”for them :)
The Record of Confidence
If we allow ourselves to quite down and to pause in silence, we will realize that there are many things we have recorded in our psyche that until now unconsciously continue to hurt us. They may be recording of harsh words we have received that still haunts us up to this day. They may be an unhealthy conclusions we may have made as a result of our painful experiences and they continue to control our behaviors and make us act in irrational ways.
This disrupts our confidence because of the high density that surrounds and circulate in our mind.Past events or scenario, failure today,loss or loosen..We embark by this things to a fug so disturbing yet we might unable to realize how often it affects our stand,our confidence.
But we are not born w/lack of confidence in our potentials. Neither are we born to distrust people. Along the way, we learned these things. Along the way, we figure it out..
We will no know to handle this things..pretty sure.. because hey they just circulating they just turn around.. and here they come again. Blast! and Learn!
